Signs of a Cheating Spouse

Infidelity, Divorce, and Child Custody, and Child Welfare matters are all sensitive issues that require discreet investigative services. Robin leads our team of female investigators that specialize in these delicate matters.

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When it come to a cheating spouse  or a break up or a divorce there are many questions you may have.  Is your spouse cheating on you?  With who? Is your ex hiding money or assets?  Who is spending time with your children?  are your children safe when in the custody of your ex? and a multitude of other concerns.  We have experience with asset searches, GPS tracking and surveillance to uncover the answers to your questions.

Red Flags of Infidelity

The following is a list of things that you may have noticed happening with your mate:


Changes in Your Sex Life

At first you may notice your partner wants to have more sex than usual. This can actually happen when someone is beginning to cheat because they are turned on by this new person they’ve met. It is sad, but true, that they may be thinking of this person and feel more sexual. In time, if they actually start having sex with this person on a continuous basis, you may find your sex life comes to a sudden halt. Unless your partner has super human powers, they can only have so much sex. So, if they’re getting it from another source, you might notice. Whether or not they are actually cheating with another person or they have a porn addiction, a decrease in sex signals possible issues in the relationship.


Gushing or Talking About Someone Suddenly

You know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him or her. If your partner begins talking a lot about a guy or girl they recently met, you may want to have your radar tuned in. It may sound just friendly at first, but if this person keeps coming up in conversation, you may want to see if your partner is willing to let you meet this person they find so fascinating. If they are reluctant, there may be more going on.


Done It Before

Know your partner’s history. It can be a red flag if they cheated before, but definitely consider the context. If it was at the end of a bad relationship and they didn’t have that pattern with other boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s, you may not want to panic. If someone is upfront with you that they’ve made mistakes in the past, maybe give them a chance — but make it a long probationary period before you let your guard down. If they have cheated several times in one relationship, or cheated in several different relationships, you may want to open your eyes to the reality of the situation. Especially if you find out from someone else, or they tell you after you catch them lying about something else. Not being upfront, is a huge red flag. There are people out there who simply can’t or won’t be faithful in relationships.


Jumpy Cell Phone Habits

In a perfect world, we’d be open about sharing our correspondence with our significant others. Most of the time, we trust that we don’t have to worry about who is texting or calling them. But, if you notice that they’re getting protective and/or nervous when they get calls or texts, it may be cause for alarm.



Even though relationships ebb and flow naturally, if you’re sensing that your partner is pulling away from you, then there may be someone else. Emotional disconnect should be investigated regardless of whether it’s caused by cheating. There’s a problem if they aren’t laughing or seeming as passionate as usual. It’s hard to spread love/passion between two people, so the person who used to have it will feel it slipping away if it’s being given to someone else.


Friends Acting Strange

Their friends will certainly remain loyal to them in most cases. They will not let you know what’s going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting their friend’s secret.


Caught in Lies About Other Things

If you catch your partner in a lie, your trust will naturally be damaged. Don’t hold a grudge — forgiveness is a good thing. If they consistently break your trust, it’s can start a pattern of behavior that may lead to cheating.


Pulling a Houdini

If your mate is disappearing, traveling, or unavailable by phone to the point where you are starting to wonder, then they could be cheating. Also, these times tend to take on a pattern because it’s tough to synch up schedules, especially in secret.


Trust Your Gut

Don’t ignore your sixth sense. People are gifted at sensing when something doesn’t feel right. Whether or not there are red flags in your relationship, if something feels off, don’t ignore this feeling. Usually that feeling is right, and something intangible may urge you to look further into the situation.

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